Admittedly, I feel slightly uncomfortable recommending Mother’s Day gifts, simply because I am not a mother (although I plan to be one day). Sure, I can make partially accurate assumptions and take notes from friends with kids, but nothing beats a recommendation from someone who is actually living that mama life, day in and day out.

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So, instead of putting together a gift guide that I can only hope would resonate with mothers my age, I’ve enlisted the help of two fabulous ladies to curate a wishlist they would actually pay attention to. Ahead, Salwa Benyaich, mother of six-month-old Harper, and Nykia Spradley, mother of 5-year-old Camden, explain why they’re eyeing these exceptional finds.